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Poem by Lola Brooks
Too quiet to speak,
No words can express the pain.
There’s no one to tell,
you were my one,
Now I’ve lost you.
I did the wrong thing,
I said something wrong.
I’d take it back,
but it’s too late.
I carry the silence within,
no one knows me like you.
There’s no one to share it with,
you won’t talk to me and
I can’t make it go away.
This past week has had a lot more downs than ups. Sometime life stops us in our tracks or at least slows us down. No reason is known, sometime there is none. It’s just the way it is. It’s how you deal with it that matters. Don’t let one or a million things change what you’ve accomplished.
I went away over the weekend before and my Dad went into the hospital. I got home late on Sunday evening and got ready for school the next day. Monday, I didn’t get up and go to the gym. I went to school and then went to take my dad home from the hospital. Tuesday, I went to the gym, school and then a workshop after school. My mom called and my dad needed some things, so I went to pick them up and take them over. Wednesday, I didn’t go to the gym because of very cold weather, I went to school and to a workshop after school. Thursday, I didn’t go to the gym because of very cold weather, I went to school and to two workshops (one after school and one at night online). Friday, I didn’t go the to gym because I was tired and sleeping in felt great. I went to school, stayed late at school and my daughter called to tell me she had the flu. Saturday, I didn’t go to the gym, I woke up late, had my coffee, disinfected the house, washed clothes, cleaned the house, got groceries and rested. On Sunday, I went to church, made lunch, worked on my lesson plans for school and wrote this blog. A full circle!
This blog is about refreshment. I normally go the gym every morning (M-F) at 5am. I try to live a very healthy lifestyle. But LIFE required me to change my day to day normal schedule into a schedule that made me change a few things, but in a good way. After much thought, I realized that I have lived a healthy lifestyle for 5 months and missing days of workouts didn’t change who I was or who I am becoming. I didn’t change my eating habits or sleeping habits. I kept in mind what I was doing and what I needed to do. I wasn’t going to let one week of non-workouts ruin my whole life. This week was refreshment for my life! A perspective of who I had become! And what I need to continue to do. LIVE!
I will be returning to my regular schedule program this week because I’m worth it and I miss it. It kept me grounded and gave me more energy. Thank you DFIT for helping me to know and like my new lifestyle because it makes a difference in all the areas of my life. And I love my life.
Check out www.dfittransformation.com for your lifestyle change. You will love your new life too!
Last night, I went to dinner with some friends who I haven’t seen since the summer. We had a great time reminiscing about how much fun we had in years past. We laughed and recalled conversations. It was great! But it wasn’t awesome!
During dinner, my newest best friend of 2 years, texted me and said that she missed me. She sent me a picture of her hanging out without me. I texted her back and said that I was coming over. My dinner friends wanted to go bowling after dinner, but I wasn’t feeling it. I told them that I wasn’t going because I needed to take care of my best friend who was going through some stuff. (which is true)
While spending time with my best friend, my second best friend texted me and wanted to talk. It made me smile. I am a wanted woman! I sort of felt bad for ditching my summer friends to hang out with my newest friends. But once I thought about it, I realized that my circle of friends had changed.
When you begin to change, the things around you change as well as the people. Your circle of friends changes. My summer friends are a great group of people. We will always be friends but with your change, comes new: new friends, new adventures, new doors, new ideas, new attitudes, new mindsets, new relationships, new favor and new blessings.
As the old year closes and the new year begins, consider what your “new” will be! And remember there will be things and people you will leave behind. But “new” things and people will find you, support you, love you, hug you, hold you accountable, encourage you, pray for and with you!
Many blessings in your future endeavours and goals in 2019. I pray that your “newness” will bring many new things and a new circle of friends.
It began with Love, when God created the world and it will end with Love, when God returns and Heaven becomes our home.
Love rules the earth and the Heavens. It overtakes our lives if we let it in. I began to learn to love again this past year. (2018) I found the love of best friend and a lost love. After many years of blocking love with a wall I built to protect me from getting hurt, two people were sent to me to show me the love I deserve and wanted.
I am grateful to God for always loving me and showing me unconditional love. For bringing new loves into my life and proving that it still exists in the right people that He chooses to send. But remember, you must be discerning and receptive to receive this love. It doesn’t always come the way you think it might. Thank you, God!
I am grateful to my loves who bring such joy to my life. Showing me how to receive love has been their greatest gift to me. I have always given love, but receiving it has been a little hard because of past mistakes. Opening up, taking down my wall, becoming submissive and enjoying their love has made me a better person. Thank you, loves!
In 2019, My one word is Love! I choose the give and receive love. I want those I love to know I love them. I will overly love them because our days aren’t promised, even though my coffee thinks I’ll live forever. lol
Learn to love God who loves you even if you don’t love Him. Learn to love yourself even if you don’t. Find ways to change that without looking for others to do it for you. Love for yourself should only come from you. Your happiness is just that: Yours. No one can make you happy, only you. When others see your happiness for yourself, they’ll want you. But you can’t make them happy either. They must find happiness for themselves. And when you come together, It’s a whole lot of love and happiness for yourselves and those who you give it to.
Grow together, love together, lean on each other together, have fun together, make memories together, build a life together. Love, just let it in!
Slippers! The day was not looking good for me! I left my wallet in my daughter’s car early that morning. I thought I left my phone at home and would not be back until that evening. I didn’t, whew! I had a long meeting at school that morning, had to call a parent about their child’s behavior and write him up. I met with another person about being the coordinator of a committee at school (my 5th commitment). I had a come to Jesus moment with another student who rolled their eyes at me. I took 10 mins of recess the next day so students in my class could practice how to line up to go out of the room and into the hallway, since they were having such a hard time with it that afternoon.
After school, I had a training so I can be a better teacher and my head was filled with gibbly-garb as I thought about all the things I needed to get done that evening. I needed to write sub plans for the next day, put students in reading groups, start behavior plans, look at IEP’s and create MTSS plans and tweak lesson plans, grade papers, fill out interims and on and on and on…………….
In the car on the way home, I turned the radio to several different stations. Finally, I found a head-banger 80’s song, so I turned it up and sang loudly and banged my head to the music. I found it quite refreshing. Then I remembered what my trainers, Demetrius and Andrea (DFIT Institute for Transformation) told me one day when had a similar day before school started. They said to go for a walk outside. I thought that would be perfect today.
I got home and immediately changed into my workout wear, grabbed my earbuds and phone (playlist). I walked in my neighborhood. I walked down my street and up another, up a really big hill and down the really big hill and then home. As I was walking, I felt the breeze on my face, I looked at the trees, houses, yards, cars, saw a neighbor smile, a big dog (I prayed I wouldn’t be eaten) and all the drama and chaos of that day fell away. I thought about how much energy I had now and how much I could get done, including writing this blog post!
I still had a lot to do, but I could conquer it now with my extra boost of energy and the fact that the stress of the day had fallen away all because I decided to walk it out!
Take time for yourself, especially those of us who take work home. Notice your signs for the need to de-stress and find a way that works for you. Be intentional, purposeful and creative. Not everything works for everyone. Make it a healthy choice, make it beneficial for you and your body. Remember it is important for you to be here and do what you do. So walk it out and find your “ME“ again!
In school, we teach children to change the way they think by changing how they think. What goes in your mind comes out of your whole being. This concept also works for adults. If you think you can, you can. If you think you can’t, you cant.
One month ago, I joined DFIT Institute for Transformation as a virtual client. It is a program where you will learn how to tap into a full body growth mindset that will help you reach your full potential. You will work with winners who will help you create a new mindset so that you can improve your health, enjoy your body and transform your life. Demetrius, Andrea and their team have created an environment for dedicated clients (in house and virtual) with a desire to improve their life working with determined coaches who aspire to help others get healthy and fit. You will learn to transform your body, your business and your life.*
I am now in Phase 2, I am learning a lot about myself physically and mentally. I know that I am a very strong and determined person, but I’m learning about self-discipline and not to give up so easily. Change of body and mind take time and better habits form when you are aware of what you are allowing and putting into your mind and body. DFIT has helped me learn that. I feel more in control of what I do daily for my body and mind. I’m learning to say “NO” to things that aren’t good for me and I am aware of what goes into my body. It changes my thought process and it also changes my whole being.
I teach children to how to learn and how to treat themselves by creating better habits for their mind. But as an adult, I need to do this for myself too. As parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles or even just humans, we tend to put ourselves last. We can’t teach better habits if we don’t have any for ourselves and DFIT can help with that.
Change your growth mindset today! Contact DFIT Institute for Transformation, it will change the way you see yourself forever!
*Site Page: dfittransformation.com
I had been on vacation a missed a couple of Sunday services at my own church, but had gone to my sister’s church where I was visiting. This was my first Sunday back at my own church.
I had missed some of my friends who I get to see every Sunday, but everyone needs to refresh themselves with a vacation. Thinking about one of my best friends I usually sit with and hoping he would be there this morning made me extra excited about worship.
As I was walking in with my grandson, I was greeted by friends with smiles and great love. I was already feeling awesome and this just took me over the top. Suddenly, I seen him and he had seen me. We ran to each other and hugged for a long time. It was awesome. It was like seeing an old friend after an extended period of time. I asked him to wait so I could take my grandson to children’s church, so we could sit together.
Once in the service, we made sure we found seats together and began worshipping our Heavenly Father together. What a great friendship to have with someone. I am thankful for our friendship and I thank God for him.
This made me think about my friendship with God. This is how God feels about me! He loves me and misses me when I’m distant from him. And when I “let go and let God”, I run to Him and He catches me in His arms and we hug for a long time. Then we sit and have a long conversation about how much He missed me and how He wants me to stay close to Him.
Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between people. God teaches us to love Him and love others. Matthew 22:37-39 – Jesus replied, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” (NIV)
God brings people and takes people out of our friendship circle. People who love us, support us, pray for and with us, who are honest with us and stick by us. He loves us and wants us to be reminded that we are loved, cared for, and wanted by Him and our friends.
If you are seeking that kind of friendship, God wants you to know that He is waiting for you and He loves you!
